ARTICLE - MARRIAGE BENEFITS

Introduction.    

All states, countries and societies have their own Rules and Regulation for marriage. They have formulated rules and regulations according to the customs and religion of the society. There are many types of marriage. Marriage is the right of all males and females without any discrimination. Any couple can marry as per their desire by following their regime's rules and regulations. Commonly marriage is done between a male and female. Marriage means a social and legal contract agreement between a male and female, the legitimacy of the contract permits them to live together, and they can also do sex with each other. They can decide in contract marriage regarding the birth of children. Who will look after the children, and who will respond to fulfilling the other necessities of life? Further other obligations can be decided in the contract even if some serious issues happen between the couple, and unfortunately, they want to separate by divorce, so how they would do it. If the marriage has done as per the religion of the couple, so I think some obligations are automatically imposed on the couple. I believe all religions have good rules and regulations to lead a happy family life. For example, as per the Islam religion, a man is responsible to provide the all necessities of life to his wife and children even a woman can claim the cost of her breastfeeding to the child from his husband, and a man has the right to divorce his wife but if a woman wants to take divorce she can do so through a court. As per my thoughts and views, marriage provides us with the following benefits:-

• Safety of Health.    As human beings, the safety of health is our top priority.  Sex is a natural desire of all normal humans, animals and birds. Good sex provides mentally and physically satisfaction to the male and female. Internal satisfaction plays an important role to maintain your health.  To fulfil the sex desire, you have to be done sex with someone. Health is our top priority. Sex with everyone is an irreparable loss. Therefore we should remain restricted in our life partners. Marriage provides you safety from HIVs disease, but this benefit is only for those who remain to restrict himself/herself to a spouse for sex. You can suddenly ill at any time, like a heart attack, serious injury, or something else in which immediate help can only save the life. In these conditions, what the best role can play your life partner and your children no one other can do so.

• Sense of Responsibility.   After marriage sense of responsibility of a male and female is enhanced in all respect. Before marriage, you were only responsible for yourself, but after marriage, now you would also feel responsible for your lovely spouse and children. The sense of responsibility of the majority of married males and females gives them signals that if he/she will do any immoral or illegal act so he/she will be degraded in the eye of their spouse. Marriage guides males and females to maintain a good relationship with neighbours. They follow rules and regulations. Everybody has a desire to enjoy a good reputation in his society. While a good reputation can only earn with good character. Marriage is a strength for improving human character. 

• Patient. Patience is a symbol of a wise person, and marriage provides power to a human to become a patient person. Sometimes, your spouse or your child does a mistake, which gives you some financial loss and you bear it patiently due to the family love. Because you know, if you reacted in a bad manner, so it would be not good for your family relationship. Such time comes, also when your life partner shouts with harsh words at your any mistake, but you listen patiently.

• A Hard Working Person.       Before marriage, you only work for your personal life and after marriage expenses are enhanced, so hard work has to be done by you to fulfil the requirements of your family. In this way, you become a hard-working person. A man who has hard work quality, any hurdle his way cannot stop him to achieve his goal. People of all ages in his society respect him, and his all family members and relatives feel happy at this honour. On seeing this, other people in the society follow him and do hard work, which is good for society. 

• Security.   Marriage provides security to the life partners and their children in all fields of life. If the father is away from his home for a job or a business purpose, so his wife looks for the security of home and children. In the absence of a mother, the father does so. If both husband and wife are employees, they both can get social security benefits upon attaining the age of retirement, however, it depends on their service performance and eligibilities.

• Less use of Alcohol and Smoking.    A married man or woman uses less alcohol and smokes than those who are unmarried or who are married but are living single. It has also been observed that a lot of people have given up the habit of drinking and smoking after marriage. The main cause of drinking and smoking is aloneness. The life partners motivate, support each other and plan for the future. They feel a need to save money for the future. If anyone out of them is a drinker or a smoker, so he gives up the habit due to the motivation of his life partner. Habit can change but nature cannot change.

• Illegal Relationship.   Naturally, all married males or females do not like that their spouse made an illegal relationship with any other. Therefore they try to keep themselves away from such relationships. They know that if they do so, a trusting atmosphere between them would be destroyed, and family issues would be raised. The result of this issue can go up to separation.   

Conclusion.    

Naturally, all live things have been created in a couple (male and female). It is very difficult for a male or female to live single. If a male and female do not meet with each other to do intercourse, their generation will be finished. Marriage is a blessing of God. Marriage saves you a lot of problems.