Divorce Reasons

 

ARTICLE - DIVORCE REASONS

Introduction.

As a human being, husband and wife is a great and holy relationship. Naturally, males and females of all species have a desire to have intercourse with each other. To fulfil this desire legally, a man and a woman make a contract marriage. They love each other without their gain. The married people feel a good change in their life and, also realize an extraordinary power to enjoy the happiness of their life and, to face the problem. When a husband and wife stand up with connected shoulders should in any field, no one can defeat them. They provide all types of support to each other to carry out the vehicle of their family life in good manners. Both life partners have their rights and duties and they would have to be accepted their duties to give respect to the rights of the other so that their relationship could remain strong. While it has been observed in society, some people are to be failed to maintain their good relationships so, divorce cases are increasing day by day. Often, divorces occur based on issues, while these issues could be resolved amicably. Let us discuss the reasons for divorce. A lot of reasons exist and a few main reasons are as under:-

Supremacy. 

Some men and women want to establish their supremacy over others on base of wealth, designation, political influence, health, beauty or something else. After marriage, his/her other life partner does not like it. He feels it as his/her sovereignty challenge. Therefore, family problems are raised and go to the separation/divorce.

• Illegal Activities.   When a life partner of anyone is involved in the following illegal activities, disputes are started between them.

• Illicit Relationship with Others.         Being a human no one can bear illicit relations with his/her life partner. Even animals and birds do not like it. They also start fighting. It is a symbol of a morally corrupt person. Such persons are to be useless to the family as well as to society. They do not know about the importance of life partner relationships and the bad effects of separation or divorce.

Use of Drugs.

The use of drugs is an abusive habit. It is a waste of your money and injures your health. Drug adversely affects the immune system and willpower. The user becomes a patient of depression and loses his temperament. The drugs also damage the capability mental. Due to loss of temperament, he/she often misbehaves with companions. They become weak in all respect, he/she demands money from their family for the use of drugs. At last, his/her family decides to solve the problem through separation/divorce.

Lack of Trust.   

Your life partner is an integral part of your life. Do not create a space of doubt in the atmosphere of trust. If you see your family with the eye of doubt, uncertainty prevails in the domestic atmosphere and eats the peace. As a building may not be used for living without a roof, your trust is the roof of your family relationship building. The main mission of the devil is to create mistrust between husband and wife. He uses it for raising the issues between them. He feels happiness at this achievement because he knows very well about the range of its side effects. We should not listen to those who want to tell us something wrong about our family. If anyone gives you evidence against your life partner, so then also do not believe it. However, check and investigate the matter himself from all angles to ascertain the factual position of the case. To keep maintain the family relationship, both life partners always remain away from these acts which can breach your trust.

Misbehave and Unnecessary Criticize.         

It has been observed some illiterate men, who do not know women’s rights, unnecessary criticize and misbehave with their wives in the presence of their children and other people. Such persons do not take opinions from their life partners on domestic matters. Some people do not talk in good manners with women, in these situations wife feels unsafe herself and demands separation/divorce. On the other hand, some women also have a bad habit of backbiting their husbands, despite doing good behaviour from their side. Always keep positive thinking, ignore the minor mistakes of your life partner and welcome his/her good deed.

Imbalance Expenditure.

Some people lose their balance way in domestic expenditure. Either they do expenditure more than their ordinary expenditure or they do miser. Extraordinary expenditure becomes the cause of financial hardship and in the case of misers women and children are deprived of their necessities. The family feels uncertainty in these conditions and issues start. If both habits are not given up, maintaining family relationships becomes very difficult.

Lack of Communication. 

Good communication helps you to discuss all problems and its solution. But it has been observed, some married peoples remain busy in their own business, job or some else work and, they could not manage their time for family according to the requirement. The family feels lonely. Lack of communication allows those who want to misguide you or your life partner. Disputes are increased and go to separation or divorce.

Commitment Issue.          

Commitment gives good ideas and energy to the human for preparing plans, decision power, working hard and achieving the goal. Due to the lack of commitment, life partners lose their internal satisfaction and enthusiasm, therefore they become failed to maintain their marriage relationship. They cannot work together even, and they also lose those good friends who can guide them in a worse situation. 

Consequences. 

• The husband and wife relationship is a great blessing of Allah (God).

• Parents of the couple should be involved in contact marriage, they can guide them with experience for maintaining good relationships.

• Undoubtedly, divorce is a right of both life partners and if they feel to use this right, they can use it but this right can adversely affect the life of the whole family especially children.

• Utmost effort should be done to resolve the issues by both sides so that divorce/separation could do not occur.

• Divorce is considered by some people a stigma on the face of a divorced couple, especially for females.