HAPPY LIFE

 

Introduction.    

The process of creation/birth of all humans is the same but shapes are different. While by birth, some people are white, wheatish and some are in black clours. Their body structure is also different. Likewise, they are not financially equal. In this way, everyone has their views and thinking about the creation of universals. Based on their views and thinking, a human does strive, to achieve his goals. Despite having different thinking and views, all people want to spend their happy life in all respect, whether they are doing well or not for themselves and society. A businessman, shopkeeper, labour or employee of any institution seems to do the utmost effort for a happy life because; in the present era, it is not an easy achievement. Now the question is this, can everyone achieve it?.  While, the majority of people seem to worry due to unemployment, loss of business, family disputes, natural disasters, terrorism, extremism, diseases like the COVID-19 pandemic or something else. Undoubtedly, everyone wants to come out of this situation to lead his/her happy life. I think we can lead a happy life by acting upon the following principles:-

• Strong Believe in God.    Believe in God means that He is the creator of the universal, where we live and also where we have no access. God is the best knower and best doer. He has given us brains for good thinking and body for doing good only. We must work hard physically for the best deeds, He always gives us only what is good for us. Sometimes, suddenly we feel sick, we should believe in God, He has saved us from major problems; however, we should take medicine and pray for the recovery of health. In this way, if money and power are not held with us, we should have to be believed in God, He shall give us at the right time. My meaning is not, to give up striving for gaining money and power, rather we should think, that we have some weaknesses, therefore, we cannot get them. Believing in God gives immense pleasures in life. We cannot imagine it.

• Good Thinking.       Good thinking means, what you want yourself, want the same for others or what you feel happiness on achieving your goal; feel the same happiness in the success of others. Good thinking means having a good attitude and enthusiasm for others as you like for yourself.  It gives great energy for internal satisfaction and alertness. Those who have good thinking remain safe from depression and anxiety. If we want to spend a happy life, we would have to follow the principle of good thinking.

• Good Use of Spare Time.    Spare time is also a great blessing of Allah as health. Best utilization of spare time plays an important role to make a happy life. I think we can do the following, during our spare time:-

1. Give the priority to your family to spend your spare time.
2. Meet with relatives, neighbours and friends.
3. See the patients of your area who are admitted to the hospital or detained at home. You can do more else for them if you are a professional in the medical field, especially for those who are lying sick in their home.
4. If you can afford it, you can spend your spare time as a volunteer social worker or something else good work as a welfare measure for the people of your society.
5. Mediation and physical exercise are also good for the best use of your spare time.
6. You can learn technical skills for extra income and the best use of your spare time.
7. Do study these books, newspapers and other available materials which can help for self-improvement. We can watch healthy programmes on TV, and also can listen to motivational talks and lectures.
8. After working hours, if you feel tired, you should take a rest to keep maintain your health during your spare time.

• Help.  Help means to provide assistance, facility or to make ease to someone, while it was also not your responsibility and not any other personal gain. When you help others, he and other people also feel good and you too naturally feel happy.  There are many types of help. However, I would like to mention here the main types of help: -

1. Physically Help.     It means that when we physically act or do something for others will be called physically help. For example, if a man is carrying some luggage or something else, we help him with carrying the luggage, or if a person has no money for eating food and we give him some food or money, it is a physically help.
2. Morally Help.         Morally help/support means to encourage the enthusiasm and thinking of a person who has the desire to do something good in all respect. For example, if a person who lost character and he deserves for improving, you do morally help him to the improvement of his character.
3. Politically and Socially Help.     Political support means if a violation of human rights is being done or identification of any society and nation is being lost by the regime or other groups, and you highlight it at the national and international level for the attention of responsible authorities and organizations so that these issues could be solved in the best way. Your, highlighting these issues and the use of the political influence of all concerned will be called political help.  Social help has great importance.  Social help means to help out the needy persons on an immediate basis through the family, neighbours, relatives, friends, co-workers and society where you are living.

• Health.    Health is your wealth. Use all legal means to keep himself/herself healthy. Always pay special attention to your healthy diet and strictly follow the sanitation rules. If you want to enjoy your life, you would have to be remained healthy in all respect because a sick person cannot spend a happy life whether he has a lot of money or other materialized facilities.

• Gratitude to Allah/God.    Gratitude to Allah/God means what is held with us is enough for our needs, a lot of people are best than us, but they have less than us. Who those adopt the principle of gratitude use their available resources wisely and in good manners. They do not spread their feet more than the actual requirement and if we will do so, we will feel easy and our life will automatically become happy.

Conclusions.           

Undoubtedly, above mention principles help us to spend a happy life. As per my personal experience, our feelings and desires make our life happy or unhappy. We would have to be controlled over unnecessary desires and bad feelings. 

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